Recessive Sins – and What to Do

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recessive sinsWhat is a Recessive trait?

A person with a recessive trait inherits it from both of his parents. For example, blue eyes are a recessive trait. For my kids to have blue eyes, both their father and mother must carry the blue-eyed recessive trait. My father had blue eyes, but my mother was brown-eyed, yet she carried the blue-eye trait, as evidenced by my blue-eyed sister and by the fact that I have blue-eyed children even though both their parents have brown eyes.

Recessive traits are often hidden, and don’t show up for generations down the road. There are health issues, diseases, and characteristics (such as blue eyes) that are sometimes seemingly absent for generations. Then they show up, and the only way we know they are even there is when they show up.

How Sins can be Recessive

That’s how it is with our sins. Sometimes there are sins or attitudes lurking down underneath the surface. We don’t even realize they are there until they shoot up and out. Sometimes we wonder. “Now where did that come from?!” 

It’s a subtle thing – and so like our Enemy. We hear ourselves or watch others (sometimes) and think, “Who would have thought?!”

I think of recessive sins as those who are held onto and rooted deep down in us. These are habits or strongholds that we continue to use and be a part of rather than asking God to give us victory over them. When we confess our sins, make restitution, and forgive others, we’re not bound by nor  struggle with those hidden sins. Recessive sins are sins that are (sometimes) passed down to us through the stronghold of others in our lives.

Abraham and Sarah passed on the recessive sins of deceit and lying to their son Isaac, who passed them down to his son Jacob, whose sons inherited the same traits. We can follow the trail right down through each generation. When children experience something modeled in the daily of life, they tend to think it’s okay and normal. They copy that model, be it good, bad, or indifferent.

Abraham

Abraham and Sarah went to Gerar. To hide the fact that Sarah was his wife, Abraham told the king that she was his sister. That was true, for they were half-siblings. The problem is that wasn’t the whole truth. Abraham’s intent was to give the impression they were not married (to protect himself – see Genesis 20:11). By hiding information that would normally have been given, Abraham implied he wasn’t married. Abraham used the literal truth to imply an untruth. 

You can read the story as it is found in Genesis here

Isaac

Some years later, Isaac repeated the lie of his father. He was also living in Gerar, and he told King Abimelech that Rebekah was his sister. The king observed Isaac and Rebekah from his window one day and realized they were more than brother and sister! Isaac’s reason for the lie was the same as his father’s: he was afraid for his life. You can read the story here. I suppose King Abimelech was thinking to himself, “Like father, like son.”

 

recessive sinsJacob

Years later, Jacob – Abraham’s grandson and Isaac’s son – exhibited the same behavior. Jacob was a conniver. He cheated his twin brother out of his birthright by lying to his father about who he was. I wonder where he learned that?! Later still, the lying gene showed up again when he deceived his father-in-law. Jacob had many encounters with God. There were times he recommitted himself to Jehovah. God promised to make a great nation of Jacob’s descendants – and He did. God met Jacob in mighty and powerful ways. They had a relationship – but that deceitful trait remained dormant and resurfaced time and time again.

Jacob’s sons

The recessive sin of lying continued to weasel its way through his descendants. His own sons intentionally deceived their father when they brought him Joseph’s coat of many colors and said,

“We found this. Examine it to see whether it is your son’s robe.”

The sons did not tell an outright lie.They deliberately spoke truth to imply a lie. The coat did belong to their brother, and it did have blood on it. Yet, that was not the whole story! That recessive trait of deceit and protecting one’s own interest was passed on from generation to generation.

The How and Why of Recessive Traits

Our sin nature is pervasive. While every sin we commit cannot necessarily be traced to a previous generation’s error, it is abundantly clear that when a sin is not conquered in our life and instead becomes a way of life, there is great potential for it to be passed on as a pattern in future generations. One family’s struggle might not be deceit. It could be pride, greed, jealousy, bitterness, rivalry, or anger. When we are not careful to uproot a sin in our lives, it will bear fruit in future generations, thus becoming recessive sin. If we harbor anger or bitterness toward a parent or grandparent, you can be sure our kids will carry the grudge down the years, even if they don’t know what the grudge was about when it began.

Recessive sins are those traits, character flaws, and sins that become a part of us because of what has been modeled. If a father is obsessed with wealth or prestige, guess what often becomes most important to his children?! If a father spends his time serving others, helping lonely folk, and donating for causes, his children will more likely want to spend time helping others. When a mother’s career is more important to her than being a mother, her children will likely develop the same attitude. When a guest is more important than decor, our kids learn about hospitality.

Why the Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree

We don’t have to teach our kids; they learn it by observing (or osmosis!). We don’t have to tell them how to think; they will catch our attitudes by absorption. Values are caught more than they are taught.

recessive sinsThose things important to parents will often be picked up by their children. Our focus becomes their focus – and soon people are saying of our kids, “The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.” That can be a good thing; and again, sometimes a very bad thing.

What to do about recessive sins

  • First, we need to recognize the sin and call it what it is-SIN. When we are not willing to admit sin, it’s hard to name it. 
  • Name it. Give it a face and a name – it will help you recognize its shame.
  • Confess the sin. Bring it out of the closet instead of denying its existence.
  • Make yourself accountable to someone who knows you well and can encourage you to keep pulling those roots before they become imbedded and continue to bear fruit.
  • Ask God for wisdom – and for conviction – when that recessive sin rears its ugly head.
  • When you fail, make things right – if you are sincere, you’ll know what to do.

The stories of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob give me courage. It’s true they failed in many ways, and their failures affected future generations. Their families – and others –  suffered because of the failures of these men. Yet our God is a God of grace. He pardons and He cleanses. Our God heals, and He restores. He did this for Abraham, for Isaac, and for Jacob. Jehovah God does the same for us, today!

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From Creation to Christmas

It’s December and I’m thinking Christmas.  I’m also thinking Creation.

Here is why.  In the beginning of what we know as time, the earth was formless and empty.  There was darkness and God spoke the worlds into being.  He created animals from the dust of the earth.

Even after creating so many things and such grandeur over five days, He was still lonely.  He wanted mankind so he could have fellowship – and receive praise and worship.

He said, “Let US make man in OUR image.”  God, the Almighty God, chose to make man after Our likeness.  

He did.   [He saved the best for last. I  know this, not because man is so great, but because of what God said after he created man, at the completion of a week of creating.]

Only this time, the creating was different.  God didn’t just speak.

He stooped to the dust of the earth.  You know what?  When someone stoops to do something, they are involved and leaning into the work. Did God use His hands when He formed man?  I like to think so.

You  know what He did next?

Scripture says that God breathed into man’s hnostrils the breath of life.  Scripture says, “Man became a living soul.”  Just. Like. That.

With all His previous acts of creation, God spoke and it was so.  With all the rest of creation, God saw that it was good.

When he made the first man, He didn’t speak man into being.  He formed and He breathed. He saw that the culmination of His work was very good.

After Adam had named the creatures as God brought them to him, God formed the woman from the rib of Adam and brought her to him.

In naming the animals, Adam saw that he himself didn’t have a partner.  All the other animals had a partner. The animals were not just created male or female.  God made both.  The male for the female and the female for the male. However, there was no one for Adam.

Was Adam lonely?  Did  he realize he was actually alone?

What a WOW moment for Adam when God brought Eve to him!

That was creation – when everything was complete and perfect.

When I consider the heavens, the work of His fingers, the moon and the stars, then I wonder with the psalmist: what is man that You are mindful of us?

As mankind, we are a little lower than the angels.  We have dominion over animals on earth as well as the birds of the air and the fish of the sea.  Why?  God planned it so.

When I consider all of God’s creation I have to wonder: who am I that God is mindful of me?

This one thing I know.  It is not because of who I am or what I have done.  It is because of Who God is.

So mindful of us that, when sin entered the world, He already had a plan.  Into our fallen world, God brought a Savior. This is why we have Christmas.

It is not because of who we are, but because of Who He is.  Let us never forget.

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O Lord, our Lord, how excellent is Your name in all the earth! [Psalm  8:9]